Monday, March 31, 2014

Week 6 - Only slightly eaten by bugs. The allergy isn't as bad anymore

And happy. Very much so. To start off, here are some pictures. I have no idea what the format is going to do when I send it. (Dad - I copied all my pictures to my hard drive -muchas gracias for that, by the way, but it means I have less time to write. However, a picture is worth a thousand words, right?)

With the sweaty face. Yup, shouldn't have used
flash. But I figure you, as my family, won't mind too much.
a typical street where I'm serving. The green is
much more vibrant in person.
While those are loading, we had a baptism on Saturday! The day was really completely crazy, but it was wonderful. I haven't known Ana as long, but I know that the road to baptism has been long and bumpy for her. Her husband's brother is on a mission, and right before the baptism he expressed to her his own desire to resolve the problems that are keeping him from baptism, and to be baptized before his brother comes home. It was really powerful when he bore his testimony to support her, because at the 11th hour she wasn't sure. We had 5 investigators come to the baptism, one of which was a street contact who called us on his own and said that he wanted to come to church. We met him on the way to the baptism, and he brought a friend. The next day, they both came to church! I think we'll have a couple more baptisms soon.

Bits and bobs: We eat lunch with various members of the relief society, at two in the afternoon, or 3, depending on when we get there or what we're doing beforehand. They feed us delicious things like chicken soup and mole or broth that they removed the vegetables from and then we put back in. And corn tortillas, every day. Sometimes we'll eat something little when we're in the apartment at night, but we don't have 'dinner' per se, more like an evening snack.

I drink milk here. It comes out of a box and for some reason tastes better. Eg, I can swallow it without gagging. I would bow, but you can't see me.
Mangos. Mangos are delicious. Mangos for breakfast, mangos for evening snack, agua de mango with lunch - I love mangos. They put chile on their fruit here, too. on the mangos, on apples, on oranges. Spicy is kind of the mantra around here.

So, technically today is the end of my first transfer! I totally cheated though - I've only been here two weeks :) None of the four of us in Cacahoatan were transfered - the other set of sisters also has a sister-in-training. The first week went by really slowly, but it's starting to speed up. I hear that at a year is when it really really starts to fly.

Mommy - funny story for you. This morning because it's transfers, we had to super-clean the house. I'm still getting used to the difference in cleaning supplies here. Anyway, I was filling a bucket with water, soap and clorox to clean the bathroom, when one of the sisters hands me a bottle of green Fabuloso! And we actually used it, to clean pretty much everything, from finishing off the bathroom to the patio (speaking of which, Dad, remember the pictures of the tank of water from my house in Ecuador? That's where we wash clothes... I'll send you pictures next week if I remember). But yup, they really use fabuloso. confession: It made me miss you.

Love you all! I love the Gospel, and I love my Savior. He makes me so much stronger than I could ever be on my own. Enjoy general conference, and invite a friend :)

Love always,

Hermana Juliana

Monday, March 24, 2014

Week 5 - March 24, 2014 - A very suburban white girl in Southern Mexico

Seems an appropriate title.

It's currently raining cats and dogs. the drops are HUGE and actually look like peices of ice. (and the computer is underlining everything I type in red. 

Things I'm thankful for this week: 
Vicks Vapor Rub. It's quite miraculous is preventing zancudos (really little bugs with a powerful bite) from eating my legs alive during the night.

Having a knowledge before getting here of where food (AKA chicken and beef) really come from, so that it wasn't terrifying when a family invited me to watch them kill a chicken. (we ate it the next day in mole)

Other things:
Because of the zancudos and my reaction to their bites, my ankles decided to take a change in career and become balloons! We went to the doctor (who is a counselor in the bishopric) and he sent me to rest because by that point they were really swollen and painful. BUT he said it happens to everyone who comes from the North and my body will get used to them. 

Food is great. Seriously, so good. I need to get recipes before I leave. They don't really use silverware (except for spoons for soup) - they're there, at the table, but there's also a giant pile of corn torillas. The tortillas are what they use to eat with. 

Dad- there's a ward here, and there are actually two sets of sister missionaries. I´m trying to remember everybody's names and where people live, but addresses aren't always the most exact things in the world. The ward has been so kind. I don't even know how to express adequately how welcoming they are. Even the people we contact who want nothing to do with us have been polite (so far. granted, I've only been here a week).

There have been ups and downs - perfectly understanding and speaking the colloquial spanish is still out of my grasp, but I'm grateful for the language abilities I have - this would be so much harder otherwise.

I feel like Mom won't think this is enough, I know you have more questions. I want to tell you everything about each investigator, all of the incredible experiences I've had, but I'll have to make do with only a few. My favorite perhaps was when an investigator named Max after our lesson with him decided that he wanted to accompany us to our next lesson. In that lesson, we showed the movie 'The Testaments of one fold and One Shepherd'(really good... watch it) and were then able to invite members who also came with us to share their testimonies of the Atonement and the Book of Mormon. The Spirit there was incredible. 

I love being a missionary. I'm doing my best to enjoy even the bits that aren't so fun - they make good stories, and are only not fun in the moment. I love being able to delve into the scriptures every morning and share my testimony with everyone I meet. 

Hermana Juliana


Monday, March 17, 2014

Week 4 - March 17, 2014 - Mexico!

Yes, I´m really here. It´s pretty crazy mostly because it feels so normal. The casas with walls around them that threw me off in Ecuador feel like coming home. Speaking Spanish is fantastic - I missed it, but I´m still working on picking up the local vocabulary and understanding conversations about people and places that are totally unfamiliar to me. 

Our travel day was crazy long. We got to Tuxtla Gutierrez at 4 in the afternoon, and the only problem we had was Elder Stephens accidently sending his carry-on through the checked baggage place in Mexico City - he had to go ask the airline to get it for him  - behind security, and we couldn´t go with him. It took him longer than we expected and we didn´t know how  we were going to find him again. We did, and we got to our gate at the final boarding call. The ironic thing was that the plane was so full we all ended up putting our carry ons underneath anyway. that was the first time that I was super duper glad I already speak Spanish.

The other interesting thing about the travel day; Our flight from Atlanta to mexico city I got moved up to first class, the guy next to me wanted to sit with his friend, who was in first class. I felt like a princess! First thing the flight attendent asked me if I wanted a glass of orange juice - it was in an actual glass! They also served me what was basically a four course breakfast - incIuding salmon and capers. I didn´t even know what capers were. I´m looking forward to telling people that the first time I flew first class was on my way to my mission. ;)

The part you´re actually waiting for! Chiapas is BEAUTIFUL: Seriously gorgeous. We spent saturday night in the mission home - after Presidente Cardenas and Sister Cardenas fed us like royalty (steak and papas rellenas, guacamole, frijoles and tortillas and a spicy salsa and something unkown but delicious for dessert - there´s your answer Dad, the food is fantastic). 

Something that stood out to me - I wrote about in my journal. Sister Cardenas and the President, and all the missionaries, talked and joked and generally just enjoy one anothers company. It goes well with something President Cardenas says a lot - if we´re not happy, what are we doing here? We didn´t come for an excercise in suffering. We have challenges, and when we overcome then, we see how much we´re capable of. 

They did say that our 'generation' of arrivals (it was just the three of us from our district) altogether have the best spanish of any North Americans they´ve gotten and people have in general been very impressed with how well I speak. That´s gratifying. I feel like it would be so frustrating to arrive and want to tell people everything I know and feel and not be able to - it was frustrating Ecuador and I´m sure it would be even more so here. But I can communicate, 

-Thought I just had. That whole awful January searching for Rotary clubs that would host me, I knew I wanted to be an exchange student, but I think the Lord helped me be persistent because He knew it would help me someday. My MTC teacher said something along those lines - every no and then she remembers experiences from her time in the MTC or throughout the mission that she figured out a reason for then, and keeps finding new reasons for now. Pretty cool, huh?

Suinday morning we did basic welcome to the mission training from Sister Cardenas, the assitants and the secretaries, ate pan de avena with Nutella and Yogur (yup, the yummy drinkable kind) then met our companions and went to a barrio in Tuxtla Gutierrez. The stake center we went to is actually right next to the temple, which isn´t much bigger then the stake center. Came back for more food, then we got on a bus to our area. 

I still haven´t made it all the way to Cacahoatan - we got to Tapachula, which is about an hour away at 10;15 last night and stayed with the Sister Training leaders. We´re in Tapachula still because an investigator just moved here yesterday and we were going to visit her later this afternoon. She has a baptismal date for Saturday! Hopefully this time she goes through with it - apparently two baptismal dates have come and gone. 

IT´´S HOT. I feel like I have a permanent extra layer on my face from the humidity. But so far, I haven´t felt overwhelmed by it, probably because I´ve not been walking a ton. I can´t wait to walk though. This is seriously such a beautiful place. The greens of the trees are technicolor bright, the buildings painted bright colors, and some trees are flowering completely pink or bright purple. Oh, tell Gramps that Chiapas is the second safest state in the country. I will be fine :)  The people are super nice - contacting was just like having a normal conversation and talking about church isn´t even slightly uncomfortable. 

My companion: Hermana Hernandez is from Tijuana, and she´s been here for nine months. From what I´ve seen so far, she´ll be able to teach me a lot, and obedience is really important to her, too, so I´m grateful for that. 

Another thing Presidente Cardenas said is this is the best mission in the world. We are on the same ground that Alma and Ammon walked, where they taught King Lamoni, the missionaries that I read and admire in my study were HERE.  When he said that, I felt it, too. Even just typing it I can feel it. I´m so excited to see what miracles the Lord is going to let me participate in and see while I´m here.
Thank you for being so supportive - like I said in my package, I know that I have been so very blessed because of you. It´s a great example for me to be able to share with my investigators. I was worried at first because I haven´t really passed through any crises of faith or super difficult trials with my family that can be powerful examples to people - but  I have realized I have an example that´s just as powerful if not more so, of what the God can do for us when we live faithfully. 

Love always,
Hermana Juliana

Thursday, March 13, 2014

Week 3 - March 13, 2014 - Travel Plans

Salt Lake actually had  travel plans for us to leave on Wednesday morning but because it was P-day the day before they never got to us and the plane left sans us.

HOWEVER. We are leaving tomorrow, from the MTC at about 9pm, and our flight to atlanta Georgia leaves at 12:45 am. So, I will try to call in the Salt Lake Airport before we board our flight, it'll be between 10 and 11 your time, (11 and 12 Utah time) OR, if I don't reach you, between 3 and 6 am in the Atlanta airport. I imagine that between 11 pm and 12 am would be slightly easier for you folks.. 

By the day after tomorrow at about 4 pm I'll be in my mission, and I don't know when I'll be in my area, because it is on the Guatemala border, very far away from Tuxtla Gutierrez, which is where we will be arriving (after another layover in Mexico City). I'm getting to be slightly less terrified than I was before - but I haven't gotten there yet. I can honestly say that I'm SUPER EXCITED, though.

Love always,
Hermana Juliana

Tuesday, March 11, 2014

Week 3 - March 11, 2014 - Pictures!!

I learned at the end of last week how to add pictures to emails, so here are a few :) The MTC is pretty much the same every day, and lots of people have cameras, so I haven't taken many pictures yet. But I do have some. Among these are pictures from Temple Square with Anthony, pre-nametag, Erin Brady (yay!!), also pre-nametag, my district (my camera was the last to get pictures taken on it so the district dynamics are coming out - it's pretty funny), my companion and I with our Branch President, President Call, me and the giant map on Main Campus (had to get the traditional picture) and the gym domes for Dad.


Ok - Mom, I always blamed Anthony if that phone went off anywhere where people could hear it... Yet I never changed it. I guess I just subconciously liked it or something. Thanks for the goofy anecdotes, I appreciate them. They both made me laugh.

Dad - The two elders from my district that have already left were native speakers, one from Costa Rica and the one from London whose parents were from Ecuador (They're both in their mission in Bakersfield, have been for a week). The rest of us learned it in various places, with varying levels of fluency. For the most part everyone has less experience with grammar and vocabulary, still speaks very well, but are less confident than they should be. 

Because our teachers got a new district, we were moved into a different classroom in the same apartment. But we still see our old teachers everyday, and we've been helping them by acting as "roommates" or friends who are visiting during their progressing investigator portion of the class. It's really cool. I've learned a ton about what works, what not to do, how to include members in the conversation, and perhaps, most importantly, seen that sometimes what missionaries say doesn't make sense, but the Spirit is still there, or that what the missionaries say is completely different from what the investigator learns from the Spirit.

It was also fun because we got our teacher, Sister Williams to come eat lunch with us yesterday. She was telling us about her mission (she didn't start loving her mission until her last transfer) and about how much she loves working at the MTC, and we were telling her what we've learned. She said she loves watching the missionaries grow, and it's amazing because I've felt it. Her brother, Hermano Williams told us on the first day that we had been endowed in the temple and then set apart as missionaries - our limits aren't the same anymore. I have absolutely seen that in myself. There are some things that I KNOW I would not have been able to handle previously, but that I've managed. 

We checked the mail after lunch (we walked down to Brigham's landing with the Burger Supreme to eat, I had a guacamole burger which was eh, but the frys were great). So far, we haven't gotten travel plans. Last chance is tonight at dinner time - we'll see! The problem is, since it's P-day, travel can't track us down in our classroom.

Last Thursday we went to the consulate, and we went via Frontrunner/Trax, then 5 blocks of walking in Salt Lake. There was 5 from our district (an Elder was added to our district because he's in the same boat) and Elder Stephens in our district received the instructions as the assigned travel group leader. He read the paper which said "Travel Group Leaders will be assigned to groups of four missionaries", and looked up at the group of 16 missionaries... no one else had a travel paper. But we got there fine. 

We sat on an upstairs floor for about an hour (in the more comfortable chairs, instead of the metal row chairs like in the Social Security office - remember those Mom?) because they were really busy, then they moved us downstairs, lined us up, sat us down , we said our names, they took our pictures then scanned our index fingers electronically. Usually they interview missionaries as well, basically to make sure that we won't be working and can leave if we want, but for some reason they didn't do that with us. So we got back on the public transportation and headed ack to the MTC.

It was interesting being on public transportation in Utah, because people either saw the tags and avoided us or they saw the tags and smiled and chatted with us. I like to think it won't be as hard to talk to people when there isn't a giant mob of missionaries. 

We've been playing volleyball every gym time since we popped over there to try it last week. Sister Oliver had never ever played before, and now she loves it. Yesterday we started out with 5 people on each court, and there was not "volley-ing". It went serve, smack the ground, serve, smack the ground, serve. We got more people eventually, people who were actually good, and everyone who had been playing started to get better. By the end, we were going back and forth and back and forth like a normal volleyball game. Sometimes one team would hit it like 6 times, but it would eventually go over the net and we would keep playing. It was fun.

It snowed this morning! We were starting to get worried that we would freeze, but then we came out of the temple to blue sky. It's windy again now, and kind of cold, but I don't think we'll need to huddle inside permanently for warmth.

According to missionary portal I have an assigned area: Cacohoata. I know nothing about it, but google away for your own enjoyment.

I love you all! I'm so excited (and terrified) to be in Mexico and teaching real people. I know that it's going to be really really hard, but I also know that I'm not the one who actually does any of the teaching, I just need to create an environment where the Spirit can be there to testify. The Spirit is so, so so important for effective missionary work. This is not something that I am capable of doing by myself. Good thing I don't have too! as long as I stay worthy. 

Les quiero,
Hermana Sophie Juliana

Tuesday, March 4, 2014

Week 2 - March 4, 2014 - at the CCM: Visa and teacherless

Hola Familia!

Sadly, our teachers are receiving a new district tomorrow so we don't know yet what we're going to be doing. It seems there was a glitch in communication between scheduling and travel, so we're going to the consulate in Salt Lake City on Thursday (I don't know why we aren't going to Vegas). But the ball is rolling so I'm satisfied.

Spanish is lovely. I love speaking it. I can't wait to really and truly be speaking it all the time again, and I'm really really grateful that I already know it because I have seen missionaries struggle with it, and it makes it harder to focus on what they're really hear to learn: the language of the Spirit (yup, cliche used all the time in the MTC phrase, but it really is the only thing that encompasses the right image I'm trying to convey).

This past week: I learned that MTC apple pie is NOT as good as I expect it to be when I look at it. Unfortunately I've had to learn that lesson multiple times. It's not bad, it's basically the same filling as the mini-kind from the front of Costco, but I'm spoiled rotten by delicious food from my childhood. The food really is pretty good. If you ever ate at the cannon center, then you know pretty much what it's like. I feel sometimes like I'm back to my freshman year. Except I have a calling, am set apart and wear the name of Christ on a badge above my heart - that's a little different. 

The cafeteria on main campus is literally four or five times the size of ours. We ate there twice on Friday for our in-field orientation, which was AWESOME (in Field orientation - the food was pretty standard MTC fare). I'm grateful for the opportunity I had to serve with the Ward Missionaries, because a lot of the information there seemed like a review, so I'm hoping that will help me hit the ground running once all of the Visa stuff gets solved. It was a reminder to me to be a missionary people will want to refer their friends to, and made me ask myself, will I be willing to trust the missionaries with my friends when I am not a missionary? I honestly don't have an answer to that right now, and I probably won't for another year and a half. I hope I will, because missionary work is impossible without the members being involved. 

Yesterday we had a substitute teacher for our evening class because our normal teacher was in California for the weekend - an opportunity came up for her to visit her mission, so she took it. It was cool for us, too, because her progressing investigator character Raquel, who we came to love a lot, is one of the people she will be visiting while she's there. (She probably is already back, but we haven't seen her). ANYWAY - the substitute teacher, from Puebla, actually served in the Tuxtla Gutierrez Mission under the president that is there now. She says that it's absolutely beautiful. Hot, but beautiful. Sorry, mom, I didn't ask all of the questions you probably wanted me to, but we were in class, so I think it's excusable.

** Note of explanation: for teaching practice, we have the Teaching Resource Center, which is mostly staffed by volunteers, but our main teaching experiences are with our teachers. They think of a person, often an investigator they taught on their mission, and act as them, 'progressing investigators'. 

One of the coolest things has been teaching our progressing investigator Julio, because Hermano Williams goes home and teaches his non-member friend April the things that we teach Julio who is based on April. We took a picture of the two companionships teaching Julio for him to show her.  

Dad asked about gym time - usually we've been going into the second bubble, which has the ellyptical (sp? I don't know) and bike machines, plus weights. My shoulders and elbows haven't been hurting since I got here, I think the weight lifting is doing it's job. My hands haven't been hurting either, which has really reinforced my theory that the repetitive motion jobs were what did me in.
Yesterday though, my companion and I joined a game of volleyball in the third bubble (I still haven't been in the first one). My first serve was absolutely horrendous (which I told my team it would be) but I actually did pretty well as the game went on. I even hit it over the net a few times during the course of a volley, not just during a serve. It was fun, and I think we might play again in gym time tomorrow. 

It's been raining today. It started out sunny, but when we came out of the temple it was overcast and drizzling. I'm the oddball, and it makes me really happy, because a) it reminds me of home and b) it means it's not cold enough to snow so I won't freeze in my Mexico-ready wardrobe. 

My favorite part of P-day is going to the temple. Getting emails from you, especially with the advice, gives me warm fuzzies, but being in the House of the Lord is just so restful. That rest is much needed. I'm grateful for your advice though, both of you. I wrote it down so I can refer to it more often than on P-day, because I think it'll come in handy. 

I love you all. Give Isabel a hug from me, and Ben also if he'll accept it, if not whack him. (softly, and tell him he's not allowed to retaliate).

Love,
Hermana Juliana